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Carolina Study Center, Inc.
has provided a Christ-centered, Biblical outreach to college students since 1968.
Based near Chapel Hill, NC, the director and minister-at-large for CSC, Stephen M. Crotts,
engages students at each campus visited in the Carolinas and Virginia with opportunities to
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Rev. Stephen Crotts
Wilmington, NC
Rev. Doug Peterson
Raleigh, NC
George M. Holt III
Richmond, VA
Rev. Steve Jirgle
Charlotte, NC
Grieg Alley
Wilmington, NC
Kathryn Crotts
Wilmington, NC
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3508-A Gaston Road
Jamestown, NC 27407
Phone: (336) 855-6010
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Anger: The Misunderstood Emotion
© Copyright 1996,
Stephen M. Crotts
(Author
copyright credit constitutes permission for non-profit copying)
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“You have heard that it was said to the men of old, ‘You shall not
kill; and whoever kills shall be liable to judgment.’ But I
say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother without
cause shall be liable to judgment; whoever insults his brother
shall be liable to the council, and whoever says, ‘You fool!’
shall be liable to the hell of fire. So if you are offering
your gift at the altar, and there remember that your brother
has something against you, leave your gift there before the
altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother, and then
come and offer your gift. Make friends quickly with your
accuser, while you are going with him to court, lest your
accuser hand you over to the judge, and the judge to the
guard, and you be put in prison; truly, I say to you, you will
never get out till you have paid the last penny.” |
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--Matthew 5:21-26 |
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My sermon topic today shall be Emmanuel
Kant’s deontological categorical imperative with poly-syllabic profundities
from the floating pericopes of the ancient Eucharistic text. Aren’t you
just aquiver with anticipation?
According to recent polls, the big
reason people do not attend church is that it all seems so irrelevant. But
starting with Matthew 5:21 Jesus gets relevant, personally so! Like the
small town news editor who had some extra space, so he printed the Ten
Commandments as a filler. Within a week he had 103 complaint letters.
“Cancel my subscription. You’ve become meddlesome.”
In the last chapter we studied God’s
law, how Christ did not come to abolish it, but to fulfill it. Now the Lord
shows us just how thoroughly He plans to do just that--to fulfill the law in
us so that our “righteousness exceeds that of the Pharisees.”
The next 27 verses describe an
unsurpassable obedience that the Pharisees for all their outward show could
not even imagine. In this portion of His sermon Christ uses the formula,
“You have heard it said, but I say....” He does this six times using
intensely personal examples of anger, lust, divorce, swearing, revenge, and
love. In this chapter we’ll grapple with the first--anger.
What Is Anger?
In verse 21 Christ quotes from the
Decalogue, Exodus 20:13, “Thou shalt not kill.” “You have heard it said,
‘Thou shalt not kill,’ but...,” and this is the shocker..., Christ keeps
going! “But I say...everyone who is angry with his brother shall be
liable to judgment.” Clearly Jesus was equating the outward act of homicide
with the inner attitude of anger. Both are destructive and liable to the
same punishment by God, he says.
In the Greek there are two words used
for anger. One is “thumos,” defined as a fire in dry straw.
Quick kindling. Burning hot. But just as suddenly gone.
A woman once confessed to Billy
Sunday, “I’ve a bad temper. I blow up over the least little thing. But
it’s over in a minute.”
Sunday said, “So is a shotgun blast. It’s over in
a second, but look at the terrible damage it can do.”
The other word for “anger” is “orgizesthai,”
defined as a cold, calculated anger. Nursed. Long-lived. A slow burn.
This is the word Jesus uses in the text.
In United States law both forms of
murderous anger are recognized. First degree murder is pre-meditated, the
cold, calculated stalking of one’s victim. Second degree murder is the
sudden, irrational variety of homicide. A man looks at your girl in the
bar. You say something to him, he takes a swing at you, and you stab him to
death.
What Jesus is doing in these verses is
linking our deeds with our thoughts. He is saying the one is just as vital
to righteousness as the other. The Pharisees, you see, never killed, but,
like us, they liked to think about it, to fantasize about striking someone
in the face, getting even, dispatching someone to an early grave.
In a local novelty shop for $3.95 one
may purchase “The traffic avenger.” Battery operated, dashboard mounted,
and quite harmless, the owner can press a button and hear the sound effects
of ridding oneself of the car in front of you. The choices are “Flame
Thrower,” “Sidewinder Missile,” and “Vaporizer.” It’s the latest in road
rage chic.
Jewish scribes in Jesus’ day believed
as long as you didn’t do the deed all is okay. But Jesus raised the bar--if
you think it, if you cultivate it inside, then you’re just as guilty!
Plato described persons as charioteers
being pulled by two horses, the one Reason and the other, Passion. It is up
to us to decide which one leads.
Modern psychiatrists teach that if one
sows a thought he reaps an act. If we sow an act we reap a habit. If we
sow a habit we reap a character, and if we sow a character we reap a
destiny. Thus, as Jesus said, all homicide starts with thoughts.
So, what is anger? Jesus defines it
as a murderous emotion, a loss of control in our inner life that leads to
destructive behavior.
Righteous Anger
Not all anger is bad. In verse 22
Christ carefully delineates, “But I tell you anyone who is angry with his
brother without cause....” Some translations add “without cause.” Others
delete it. Nevertheless, Ephesians 4:26 instructs us to, “Be angry, but sin
not.”
Jesus waxed angry at the money
changers in the temple. He took a whip and drove them out, overturning
their tables.
Certainly the sin of our day is
angerlessness. We lack passion. We are slumped in indifference.
Scour the Bible and you will find at
least eight instances of anger properly used.
Exodus 32:19. Moses’ anger at Israel’s idolatry in the valley of resting.
1 Samuel 20:34. Jonathan’s anger at Saul’s plans to kill David.
Nehemiah 5:6. Anger at innocent children being harmed.
Job 32:2-3. Elihu’s anger at Job’s condemnation by three friends.
Jeremiah 6:11. The prophet’s indignation at Israel
for not heeding God’s Word.
Mark 3:5. Christ’s wrath at hypocrisy.
John 2:15. Paul’s ire at an evil doer hindering the gospel.
Revelation 2:15. Jesus’ anger over false doctrine.
I think the spirit of our age, our
lack of righteous indignation, is best captured in Ralph Coingold’s novel,
Two Friends of Man. A friend chides his
companion, “Hull, do try to moderate your indignation and keep cool. Why,
you are all on fire!”
Hull responds, “Mr. May, I have need to be all on fire, for I have mountains of ice about me to melt.”
Unrighteous Anger
We’ve looked at what anger is--a fire
in dry straw or a simmering pot. We’ve also considered angerlessness as a
sin, and the need for righteous indignation. Now let’s look at unrighteous
anger.
In verse 22 Jesus warns, “Anyone who
says to his brother ‘Raca’ is answerable to the Sanhedrin. But anyone who
says ‘You fool’ will be in danger of the fires of hell.”
Go grab a book of matches. How does
one ignite a match? Strike it! Rub it slowly over an abrasive surface and
you’ll get a spark that will cause the match to burst into fame and be
consumed. This is how our tempers work. We rub by someone. There is
friction. Heat! A right is violated. Our tempers spark. And there is a
flare-up.
The first evidence of anger is often
our tongue. It has the dubious distinction of being the only part of our
anatomy that has two of the Ten Commandments governing it.
Jesus said anger with someone comes in
the form of insults. Literally, to call someone “Raca!” This is neither a
Hebrew or a Greek word, but Aramaic. And it is essentially untranslatable.
It has to do with tone of voice, contempt for someone, insult. It is like
calling someone “a brainless idiot.”
The Rabbi tells the story of a young
student returning to his home from school. An old man’s cart has broken
down and is blocking the road. Angry at delay, the youth snarls at the
elderly driver, “You imbecile! Raca! How dare you delay me. You’re such a
pea-wit. Are all of your race so raca?” To which the cart driver replies
evenly, “Why don’t you go and tell the maker how ugly is the creature He
made!”
You see, God created. He made man in
His own image (Genesis 1:26). He judged us to be “very good” (Genesis
1:31). So, to kill another human being is an act of rebellion. It is to
fling creation back into God’s face. “I won’t have it!”
And Jesus is saying that to insult a
human is to start down the road to murder. We must not even put our foot on
that path.
Further expanding on our inner life,
Jesus describes how we call one another names like, “You fool!” In the
Greek it is “moros” from which we get our word, “moron.” Psalm 14:1 says,
“The fool says in his heart, ‘There is no God.’” It is the same word. We
even get our word “morals” from this. “Moros.” “Morals.” “Moron.” To
deride someone by calling them a fool is to pass moral judgment upon them.
To call someone “Raca!” is to insult
their nature and personhood. To cry “Fool!” in someone’s face is to judge
them morally. The one is like calling someone “Bastard!” The other is like
saying, “You go to hell!”
And Jesus is saying murder starts with
ill will in thoughts. Then it pops out of our mouths as insults, gossip,
and slander. It is to speak ill of whom God has made. And, if left
unchecked, it will eventually lead our hands to murder.
Christ declares in the text a
“righteousness that exceeds that of the Pharisees.” One is not righteous if
he does not kill. He must not nurse thoughts of ill will and speak words of
insult. “Nip it in the bud!” Jesus is saying.
Let it sober you in verse 22 when
Christ Jesus three times reminds us God will hold us accountable for our
thoughts, words, and deeds. “Liable to judgment.” “Answerable to the
council.” “In danger of the fire of hell.” See how seriously God takes our
behavior toward one another? Even our inmost thoughts are under the Lord’s
scrutiny!
For the Pharisee, religion was an
exterior show. “Just don’t kill!” But for Jesus religion went deeper. The
purest of religion invades the mind, the emotion and will with God’s Word
and Spirit. And when the inner life is right, so the outer life is proper
as well.
Now for verse 23. It begins with the
word, “Therefore.” Each time one comes to this word in the Scripture, he
should inquire, “What is the ‘therefore’ there for?” Clearly there has been
an argument. Now Jesus is drawing conclusions, “Therefore, if you are
offering your gift at the alter, and there remember that your brother has
something against you, leave your gift there before the alter and go; first
be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.”
Have you done something you know of to
anger someone? Have you swindled? Betrayed? Insulted? Slandered?
Abused? Then go make it right, Jesus says.
You see, the Bible is a book of
relationships. And we of the church should be about relationships as well.
The great commandment in Mark 12:28-31
bids us love God and love our neighbor as ourselves. There is a balance
here. One cannot fully love the Creator unless he fully loves the
creation. So, worship, Jesus says, is reflected in our human
relationships. A tithe offering is a fine thing. But fixing a relationship
of anger is finer still.
I have a pastor friend who was
sexually immoral before he entered the ministry. And he told me one of his
biggest fears was to be in the pulpit preaching on marriage and sexual
purity when he looked out in the congregation and saw one of his former
girlfriends. She’d be waving a handkerchief and saying, “Yoohoo! Remember
me? Preach it, brother!” Before this dimension of his ministry could
flourish, he had to go do some homework. He had to go back and ask
forgiveness.
The best way, then, that we can
worship God is by serving God’s people, by valuing them, by drawing them
into healthy relationships.
Now Christ gives us some free legal
advice. “Make friends quickly with your accuser, while you are going with
him to court.” If not, Christ sagely points out, you won’t get out of the
legal system till your pockets are emptied. For when tempers get involved,
truth matters little. And in the end you’ll both lose.
Conclusion
Seneca called anger, “A brief
insanity.” Anger is like jumping into a wonderfully responsible sports car,
gunning the motor, taking off at a high speed then discovering the brakes
don’t work.
Anger manages everything badly. But
truth and love manages everything well.
Proverbs 16:32 explains, “He who is
slow to anger is better than the mighty; and he who ruleth his spirit than
he who taketh a city.”
In Mexico city, tour guides will show
you a volcano. “This would have been our tallest mountain if it hadn’t
blown its stack.”
Suggested Prayer
Come inside, Jesus. I need you! Amen!
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Stephen M. Crotts
Carolina Study Center
3704 Deerfield Drive
Burlington, NC 27215-9008
Office Phone: (336) 570-9305
Office Email:
carolinastudycenter@msn.com
Home Phone: (336) 855-6010
Home Email:
stephen@carolinastudycenter.com
Website:
www.carolinastudycenter.com
About this unique pastor:
Stephen M. Crotts is a Christian preacher, teacher, and author from
North Carolina. He was educated at Furman University, the
University of London, Emory University, and the L’Abri Fellowship. As
an ordained pastor, Stephen has traveled widely in the United States,
Europe, Scandinavia, Asia, and Israel.
Devoting full time to his calling, Stephen is now ministering to
tomorrow's world leaders on campuses of colleges and universities in
North Carolina, South Carolina, and Virginia, through Carolina Study
Center. Stephen and his wife, Kathryn, live in Jamestown, North
Carolina, and he keeps his pastor's office for CSC in Burlington, NC,
which is central to most of the campuses that he serves. Most of
his messages available on this site were prepared and presented during
his pastorates with Presbyterian Churches in North Carolina and
Virginia.
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